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How to Address your Christmas Envelopes

 Here's a list of the etiquette conventions for everyone on your Christmas card list.

Who's the person?

How to address the envelope

Unmarried woman

Miss/Ms. Jane Smith

Divorced woman who uses her married name

Mrs. Jane Rogers (or Ms. if she's modern-minded)

Divorced woman who uses her maiden name

Miss/Ms. Jane Brumley

Unmarried man

Mr. John Doe

Unmarried couple living together

Miss/Ms. Jane Doe
Mr. John Smith (in alphabetical order)

Married couple, different last names

Ms. Jane Smith
Mr. John Doe

Married couple with same last name

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe

Widow

Mrs. John Doe

Military title, unmarried woman

Colonel Jane Smith, U.S. Navy

Military title, unmarried man

Colonel John Doe, U.S. Navy

Military titles, married couple

Colonel and Mrs. John Doe

Military officer, woman

Lieutenant Amy Fine, U.S. Army
Mr. Mark Fine

Clergy

The Reverend Robert Jordan

Medical Doctor, unmarried

Doctor Benjamin Rivers

Medical Doctor, married

Doctor Peter Shaughnessey

Married woman doctor

Doctor Lisa Merritt

Doctor (PhD)

Dr. Bronson Demmerling

Married couple, both doctors

Doctors Jason and Emily Thompson

Judge

The Honourable and Mrs. Patrick O'Malley